Most latex lovers are subjected to latex or rubber at some point in their childhood. Everything from a sisters swim cap to moms rubber gloves. And the same goes for all other fetishes also. Either boots is your thing, fur is your thing or maybe you have a long nail fetish. And the other thing I have learned is that guys are the driven force of most fetishes. Like my self, although I say I am a natural born latex lover I didn’t discover it until my late teens and early 20s. Once I did I felt like it was the missing piece of my life. If we all are subjected to a material thing in out childhood, what about those without any fetishes?
I once called a guy vanilla. I shouldn’t have done that. He got really upset.
From my experience I have learned that vanilla people, for the lack of a better word, dont actually like being called .. well, vanilla. Its like they won’t admit that they dont have any preferences when it comes to sex. Lets get naked and do the missionary. Bang bang. Cigarette. Movie time. Sleep. And thats it. If you tell a vanilla person that they are vanilla, they would often answer back with; thats not true. I enjoy various positions during sex. I even like hand jobs, fellatio and other stuff. So clearly I am not what you just called me.
What is actually normal sex. And why is so many offended being called normal
I guess there is no word describing normal sex. When I hear the word I think about what I described. Naked sex, missionary, standard routine. But thats just me. I think the word common sex is more accurate. Because lets face it, who wants to have a normal sex life. Being normal and ordinary isn’t that inspiring to people, and it sounds more like a routine job. Vanilla is a made up word. A word to describe everything we are not. Its a label. Just like we label ourselves fetishists.
I try to put my self in the mind of a vanilla person with no luck.
Here is why Picasso and Dali is considered as one of the most influential artists in modern age. They had a development. Like any artist that is successful, either it was the Beatles or Beethoven. They all moved forward to discover new things. So I guess what I am trying to say is; I tried naked sex. Missionary. Lets move on. My question is, why would someone be happy to stay in the same position and not want to explore more.
Are we really extraordinary just because we dress up in latex and whip each other?
I would say yes. And with good reason. Not everyone can be Picasso or Paul McCartney. They are extraordinary people. The same goes for everything. The most commonly known research is that 1 out of 10 people have a fetish. It could be innocent or it could be a profound factor in your life. Like my latex fetish. Which I am very happy and proud to practice. Some people are a little upset that latex is going main stream, because they want it to be something special, but they dont have to worry. If 1 out of 10 people have a fetish I would say that 1 out of 2000 have some sort of latex fetish. And 1 out of a 5.000 musical artist will dress up in latex next week. Latex will always be just our thing.